He’s been living with his girlfriend for 4 years now, and the three of us hang out regularly. Like I said earlier, we are really close friends and I’ve never seen anything to suggest that he was anything but straight.
I wanted to see him as a good friend, not as the object of some fantasy. But I tried to keep that fantasy out of my mind as much as possible because I valued his friendship so much.
Last weekend my straight friend and I decided to invite some people over and have a cookout at his house.